Nicole Everingham - Relationship Coach

After a negative experience with a previous counsellor, I was apprehensive to seek external help last year while being in a bad place however, after an initial session with Nicole, I knew I had made the right decision. Nicole made me feel at ease from the very beginning, listening attentively and giving well-founded advice and methods of coping. The additional material that she recommended I read was truly effective and allowed me to gain a better understanding and insight into my situation. She provided me with support and clarity, offering guidance which has helped me through a drastic life event, re-established a strong relationship with my husband and, most significantly, improved the relationship that I have with myself. My personal improvement thanks to Nicoles sessions has been so noticeable that it has even encouraged some of my friends to look for counselling help with their personal issues. Nicole has single handedly restored my faith in seeking external help when you need it. I cannot recommend her enough.
Mar 31st, 2023

I first got in touch with Nicole because I wanted some help with dating and understanding more about my attachment style, I didnt want to let it get in the way of my relationships anymore. I knew a bit about what had caused me to have an avoidant attachment style but I wasnt sure how to move on from it or if that was even possible to do. Nicole reassured me from the beginning that it is possible to move past it and she was confident that she could help, just hearing that made me feel really positive. Nicole is such a warm and welcoming person and, although I was very nervous before the first session, I felt comfortable with her straight away. Working with Nicole has helped me to boost my self esteem and create a positive image of myself, my outlook has changed a lot since I first reached out to her. She set me homework after each session and explained exactly how it would help and why it was important. This allowed me to work on myself outside of the sessions as well as during, which is essential in this process. The biggest takeaway I have from this experience is the positive reframes we set together. This was such a useful tool and I continue to use them every day to keep my mind thinking positively about myself and the things around me. Using relaxing visualisations also helped me to think about my attachment injury and to see it for what it was in order to move on from it. Overall my experience with Nicole has been an amazing journey and I cannot thank her enough, shes done so much to help me and Im very grateful for this.
Dec 2nd, 2022

Nicole helped me to deal with my emotions and anxiety better and gave me the confidence I need to have a lasting relationship. Nicole was excellent in her work and was super helpful in guiding me through my self-doubt and the issues I needed to overcome in a gentle and nurturing way. She is great at spotting areas to work with the right tools to help work through problems. Im far more confident in myself and have techniques to help me when Im struggling. When I start a new relationship, I now know what would like from it and what I can offer to others.
Jun 18th, 2022

Ive been working with Nicole for 3 months now, after recognising that I was struggling with repeated dating and relationship patterns, as well as self esteem issues within myself. I was nervous and excited to start this journey but Nicole was patient and understanding right from the get go, gently challenging whilst guiding me to explore different areas of my self and life to work through all the things holding me back from being my best self. Its been tough at times, but its all been worth it - now I feel much more assured, worthy, and Im able to put into practise the techniques weve gone through to help deal with situations that would have usually left me stressed and anxious, but now Im able to communicate effectively within. I loved the homework aspect, and Nicole had been great at consolidating what wed discussed in session and then encouraging me to go away to really work on things myself - journaling, affirmations, coming up with phrases to help me re-wire those stressful triggers. This all with sessions has helped me heal a lot quicker than previously, and Nicole helped me to recognise how those old patterns werent just in dating but other relationships too. Whether youve suffered recent heartbreak, need some support in a new relationship, have family issues or feel lost in yourself, I can wholeheartedly recommend working with Nicole. I feel transformed, unlike anything before, and its given me such a sense of self that I havent felt in a long time. I will continue to see Nicole for ongoing support as I re-enter the dating world, but the work she has done to set me up and take the leap so far has been invaluable. Nicole is patient, kind, dedicated to your personal growth and above all a truly lovely person! Thank you so much Nicole, I couldnt have done it without you!
Oct 11th, 2022

Nicole effortlessly helped me get to the root cause of my relationship issues by allowing me the space to work on myself. Together we identified my repeating patterns and behaviours in a compassionate way, which led me to heal my attachment injury and move forward. I now know my triggers and have clear and simple strategy to help me respond and act consciously. I also feel so much more confident and happier in life. What I loved most is her holistic approach. Not only did we look at my main relationship issues but all of me and my life. I have a better understanding of who I am and what I want and need in my relationship and life, and feel I am able to express myself better in all my relationships including work and family. I have already highly recommended Nicole to my friends, and she will certainly be my first point of call for any future issues I may encounter.
Jun 29th, 2022